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kansas


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Deleted post as to not upset mod's/staff.  Sorry, my problem, not yours but thank you for your time.



-- Edited by kansas at 16:19, 2006-04-05

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kansas wrote:

I am so tired I could spit.  I am sick of physical abuse etc.  What the fuck did I do so bad when I was a little girl to earn this???  Why can't this sick shit leave me alone????  He disappears for months on times then suddenly appears to satisfy his ego and his fist.  I am fed up, with everything, everything!!!!!!!!!!!!  I am not looking for responses, I just have to vent as I am going over the edge again and don't want to come back.  Sorry, just had no other place to vent, sorry.

        Sorry Kansas!


        The first step is not to let him back in.  You are more important than anyone.  You have to make the decision not to let your heart take over your mind.  You know what he is capable of and how he treats you.  Goes away for months and returns?  That is just convience on his part.  Get a restraining order on him.  If he hits you call the fucken police.  Call me, I'll come get him. 



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Sorry, no pity here. I spent 12 years with a violent man and it stopped when I stopped it. If you let it happen you tolerate.

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Sorry, no pity here. I spent 12 years with a violent man and it stopped when I stopped it. If you let it happen you tolerate.
Nice post.  He was gone for a while and now back.  I am not looking for your pity, I was just venting and I can't call the police!!!!!!!!!!!  You all don't handle your own.  Sorry for the nasty post but I am in no mood.  Forgive me for acting like an ass right now.

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Perhaps you should examine some of the advice/resources dispensed on your home page for help.


Also, are you saying that this individual is a LEO, that other LEOs will not take any action, and that is why you cannot call the police?



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people hate to hear the truth sometimes.

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If he is a cop, he should know better!  Just a restraining order will make him realize that he is fucked if the abuse continues.


Out here, we DO take care of our own.  There have been several arrested and who have lost their jobs.  I have arrested two.  It's a bad feeling but, they know better, and shouldn't put other coppers in that position.  We are not above the law..and besides how can he enforce a law that he disobeys?   



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Buttercup wrote:

Perhaps you should examine some of the advice/resources dispensed on your home page for help. Also, are you saying that this individual is a LEO, that other LEOs will not take any action, and that is why you cannot call the police?
My home page?  Ok.  Sorry to have vented, my mistake, guess thats the second one I made with you buttercup.  Sorry.

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Ok I know where you are coming from i have been through years of abuse the only one who has never layed a hand on me is my hubby... he will only do to you  what you let him....


If you  know he is gonna do this and he has done it in the past why open the door and let him back thats just asking for it right there.  I use to make excuse after excuse then i got smart  and   never looked back.  Sometimes when you are abused for  so long it becomes a part of your life almost like its natural  so  you let it happen....  What you need to do is   let him  go  walk away and never look back  i  made the choice  when i was  16 to do so.. i was beat by someone i thoiught i loved some one i trusted until he tried to kill me... you might not be  as lucky as i am today.. After i left him i found my self attracked to  other abusive men  not as bad as  the first one was but they were still abusive.. It wasnt till almost 3 yrs ago that i  took control of my life and the path  i wanted to take. I married my hubby and here we are today  we have had fights thats normal  but hitting is not and its not ok .. My hubby would never hit me i know for a fact.. break the cycle now and move on ... love  doesnt hurt in anyway shape or form and if  he hits you its not love..


WAKE UP Before you dont  wake up anymore.



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Push whatever issue you have with me aside for a minute, Kansas.  Apparently you have a problem with me, but frankly I don't care.  You're venting on a public site, and in a venue that's not exactly known for having the warm fuzzies.  The ONLY reason that I have chosen to explain my post and offer a suggestion to you is because I cannot stand idly by if I can present even one suggestion that may be helpful in getting someone away from an abusive relationship.


If you're continuing to stay in a relationship like that, however irregular, then you more likely than not could benefit from some type of counseling as well as legal advice to keep this asshole away from you.  After you made a point of discussing your homepage here shortly after you joined, I took a look at it.  That is why I suggested here that you view your homepage.  If you have all those resources at your fingertips, is it really such an odd thing for someone to suggest that you view them as a resource not just for others, but for yourself as well?  Particularly since you said you're "fed up" and "going over the edge."


As Deputy Dinosaur said, if your abuser is a LEO, he is not above the law.  You know what steps you need to take. 


You said in your initial post that you aren't looking for responses, if that's the case then ask one of the mods to close the thread to prevent them.  Otherwise, continue your sarcastic flaming to people who don't coddle you.  That'll help. 



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I have deleted the post.  I have no problem with anyone buttercup, not you or anyone here.  I am sorry for the trouble.  I should have just shut up, sorry.

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There are very good suggestions in this thread should you need them.

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kansas wrote:

Deleted post as to not upset mod's/staff.  Sorry, my problem, not yours but thank you for your time.-- Edited by kansas at 16:19, 2006-04-05
no offence but then you shouldnt have posted that in a public room

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I need to go on record here, it was not upsetting to the Mods.

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proudcowife wrote:

kansas wrote: Deleted post as to not upset mod's/staff.  Sorry, my problem, not yours but thank you for your time.-- Edited by kansas at 16:19, 2006-04-05 no offence but then you shouldnt have posted that in a public room
Your right, I am sorry.

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It was not upsetting me. I just do not fuck around. I wish when I was going through my ordeal that someone would have grabbed me and shocked some sense into me. Coddling me did nothing. If you are serious about getting away then do it. As for your little tantrum here, I find that offensive. If you post "not looking for comments" you are looking for comments. Do not hate when you get them. I will sugar coat for no one.

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proudcowife wrote:

kansas wrote: Deleted post as to not upset mod's/staff.  Sorry, my problem, not yours but thank you for your time.-- Edited by kansas at 16:19, 2006-04-05 no offence but then you shouldnt have posted that in a public room
        Excuse me, but who the fuck died and left you queen mod?  The section is "pissed off", and it appears that Kansas was pissed off so she vented.  You, of all people admitted you were involved in an abusive relationship and appeared to give some good, first hand advice.  Then, poof, something snapped and it led to the deletion of the post.  WTF???

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Kansas, if it were me I'd tell that jacjAss to get the F**** out and NEVER come back--I know easier said than done, but there are things that can be done, a tape of the conversations and sounds, a video of the A** doing the things to you. Among alot of other things that can be done to eliminate this "person" from your life.


 



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I would just like to say that I may be partly responsible for Kansas deleting her posts.  I'm the one who invited her, so feeling kind of responsible, I asked her to be careful in what she said.  That was probably an over-reaction on my part, and I apologize.

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Will someone please explain who is pissed off at who here? And I hope it's not me cause I did not delete anything.

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I agree..I can't keep up with whoever is having issues with whoever. 


Actually, the thread seemed fine to me, but apparently someone got upset somewhere.



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Look at my post, DD.  I over-reacted and asked her to watch herself. She over-reacted and deleted her posts.

-- Edited by entre new at 18:49, 2006-04-05

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As I posted earlier, the mods were not upset by her post and did not request or even suggest anything close to her removing them. I have no idea where the "upsetting the mods" thing came from. This is the correct forum for that type of post.

-- Edited by Buttercup at 18:52, 2006-04-05

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OMFG,


  I can go to work and get paid to deal with this disfunctional shit!



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OMFG,   I can go to work and get paid to deal with this disfunctional shit!
Yes you can, and you will.  So what is this site for then? I thought I could vent my mistake, guess if you are not a cop there is no venting allowed???  Yes I am mad, hurt, sad, and just plain beside myself. I am trying to deal with physical pain from abuse and I lashed out.  My mistake.  So kill me.

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kansas wrote:

deputy dinosaur wrote: OMFG,   I can go to work and get paid to deal with this disfunctional shit! Yes you can, and you will.  So what is this site for then? I thought I could vent my mistake, guess if you are not a cop there is no venting allowed???  Yes I am mad, hurt, sad, and just plain beside myself. I am trying to deal with physical pain from abuse and I lashed out.  My mistake.  So kill me.

        That was not for you!!  That was for everyone bitching about your posts!  I'm talking about the disfunctional relationships with people who frequent this site.


        You sincerely have issues with your home life and I was attempting to help you! 



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Only thing I have to say is...... I apologize for the "no pity" part. Just those 2 words. That was a little abrasive. The rest I stand by 100%.

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Kansas, I was basically wanting you to make a good impression here at TOP and got worried that you were making cryptic statements about abuse.  I was wrong, because as Buttercup said, it was the appropriate forum for such a post.  I have apologized more than once.  In my own way, I was trying to look out for you.  Capiche?


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I am sorry deputy.  I didn't mean to lash out so hard.  I am just so upset and in pain.  You know, this was the wrong place to talk.  I was scared, hurt and i turned to the internet and this place.  I was wrong and I am sorry. I don't know what to do anymore, i have to make it stop, i have to end it.  take care.

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Entre,


  Good impression?  Since when has anyone worried about leaving a good impression?  The point of this all is to express your feelings/beliefs...if someone doesn't like or agree with them.....fuck them.  No one can tell you, how you feel or how you're supposed to feel.  Opinions are like assholes....everyone's got one!


Cheers



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