What's up Plush???

Who did What???

Let it Out  .... Scream it Out ... Let it Go ...

Ok so the mom thing, is she lies. I say "I got up by myself at 10." My mother says "You had to, I was working". Bullshit. She didn't work till I was 13. Now i said NM and hung up on her cause when I need an ear about something that has went wrong, she finds a way to make it ALL my fault. Instead of offering to take my kids for a day. In 11 months of being alone. She has taken my kids 0nce. Only once in 11 months. Fuck it, like it matters.

Toby101 wrote:

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Did your mom find out about yesterday when your 2 yoa escape artist got loose.
 
What did Logan do to lose his game for the rest of the summer? 

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He left his medication on the counter. The same medication that ryan got 11 months ago. The same medication that I slipped a disc trying to get my 1 year old to the ER to have his stomach pumped.And it's London, not Logan. And yes my mother knew, I told her. She doesn't dare say anything to me about that. I am a better mother than she could ever conceive. Her parenting skills blow.

-- Edited by Plush at 12:09, 2006-06-16

Plush wrote:

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Toby101 wrote: Did your mom find out about yesterday when your 2 yoa escape artist got loose.   What did Logan do to lose his game for the rest of the summer?  He left his medication on the counter. The same medication that ryan got 11 months ago. The same medication that I slipped a disc trying to get my 1 year old to the ER to have his stomach pumped.And it's London, not Logan. And yes my mother knew, I told her. She doesn't dare say anything to me about that. I am a better mother than she could ever conceive. Her parenting skills blow.-- Edited by Plush at 12:09, 2006-06-16

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Oh ok, and sorry about getting Logan and London mixed up.

Toby,

I do that with my mom all the time

Plush wrote:

He left his medication on the counter. The same medication that ryan got 11 months ago. The same medication that I slipped a disc trying to get my 1 year old to the ER to have his stomach pumped.And it's London, not Logan. And yes my mother knew, I told her. She doesn't dare say anything to me about that. I am a better mother than she could ever conceive. Her parenting skills blow.-- Edited by Plush at 12:09, 2006-06-16

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Then why do you want her to keep your kids for a day? To give you a break, or to give them time with her?

I know you're having a bad day, but with all due respect, Plush, a 10 year old is still a child. Some 10 year olds are more mature than others, but you've essentially put him in the position of being completely responsible for himself for a couple of hours.....responsibility which includes not only feeding himself but medicating himself and ensuring that his medication is out of reach of his little brother...which in a way makes him wholly responsible for his 2 year old brother's safety for that couple of hours. That's a lot for a 10 year old. You cannot compare him to yourself at the same age because girls do mature faster than boys, he's not you, and the household circumstances are different as well. That's like the old "in my day, I had to walk 20 miles uphill to get to school..." stories, simply not relevant.

I'd be afraid to allow my child to wake up and spend the first couple of hours every day fending for himself. So much can happen so quickly, even if a parent is awake. That's just me, though. And I don't have kids.


-- Edited by Buttercup at 16:46, 2006-06-16

Buttercup wrote:

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Plush wrote:

He left his medication on the counter. The same medication that ryan got 11 months ago. The same medication that I slipped a disc trying to get my 1 year old to the ER to have his stomach pumped.And it's London, not Logan. And yes my mother knew, I told her. She doesn't dare say anything to me about that. I am a better mother than she could ever conceive. Her parenting skills blow.-- Edited by Plush at 12:09, 2006-06-16


Then why do you want her to keep your kids for a day? To give you a break, or to give them time with her?

I know you're having a bad day, but with all due respect, Plush, a 10 year old is still a child. Some 10 year olds are more mature than others, but you've essentially put him in the position of being completely responsible for himself for a couple of hours.....responsibility which includes not only feeding himself but medicating himself and ensuring that his medication is out of reach of his little brother...which in a way makes him wholly responsible for his 2 year old brother's safety for that couple of hours. That's a lot for a 10 year old. You cannot compare him to yourself at the same age because girls do mature faster than boys, and the household circumstances are different as well. That's like the old "in my day, I had to walk 20 miles uphill to get to school..." stories.

I'd be afraid to allow my child to wake up and spend the first couple of hours every day fending for himself. So much can happen so quickly, even if the parent is awake. That's just me, though. And I don't have kids.

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So what are you trying to say?

Buttercup wrote:

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Plush wrote: He left his medication on the counter. The same medication that ryan got 11 months ago. The same medication that I slipped a disc trying to get my 1 year old to the ER to have his stomach pumped.And it's London, not Logan. And yes my mother knew, I told her. She doesn't dare say anything to me about that. I am a better mother than she could ever conceive. Her parenting skills blow.-- Edited by Plush at 12:09, 2006-06-16 Then why do you want her to keep your kids for a day? To give you a break, or to give them time with her? I know you're having a bad day, but with all due respect, Plush, a 10 year old is still a child. Some 10 year olds are more mature than others, but you've essentially put him in the position of being completely responsible for himself for a couple of hours.....responsibility which includes not only feeding himself but medicating himself and ensuring that his medication is out of reach of his little brother...which in a way makes him wholly responsible for his 2 year old brother's safety for that couple of hours. That's a lot for a 10 year old. You cannot compare him to yourself at the same age because girls do mature faster than boys, he's not you, and the household circumstances are different as well. That's like the old "in my day, I had to walk 20 miles uphill to get to school..." stories, simply not relevant. I'd be afraid to allow my child to wake up and spend the first couple of hours every day fending for himself. So much can happen so quickly, even if a parent is awake. That's just me, though. And I don't have kids. -- Edited by Buttercup at 16:46, 2006-06-16

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UHm, maybe this is what she is saying...

He left his medication on the counter. The same medication that ryan got 11 months ago. The same medication that I slipped a disc trying to get my 1 year old to the ER to have his stomach pumped. Your parenting skills blow.

 

 

 

 

Good, now just recogonize!

USofAcop wrote:

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Good, now just recogonize!

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Quit sucking up.

Straight Up wrote:

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Plush wrote:
You guys misunderstood me. The 2 year old was next to me. I get up with Ryan(2) unless he sneaks out of bed. It's my 10 year old that gets up. I went through 4 months of practically being bed ridden with my disc. London(10) knows how to act and do a lot more than most 10 year olds. It comes down to Video Game Maddness Syndrome. I will be taking the games for a while, to see if things improve. Edit: I would not get mad at you for speaking your mind. May not agree, but wouldn't get mad. I only do that to USofA. Cause he's a homo.-- Edited by Plush at 16:57, 2006-06-16

Your right I misunderstood which kid was getting up early....
for a minute there ... I thought you were one of those parents who wanted kids without responsibility...my bad....
to make up for my bad....I will go ahead and work out a break for you....
call FED-EX ... have them overnight them younguns to me...I will keep them about two weeks and ship them back ....  no charge for the bad habits that will be included with the returned kids.... 
Please enclose food if you wish them to eat.... 
Slave labor will be expected from each child....
All children not housebroken will be leased outside....
 

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That would just reverse the years of hard work I have put in. Thanks for the fine offer though

Plush wrote:

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USofAcop wrote: Your just lucky that all of these PC people got to you before I did! Quit flamin. You suck at it

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Well at least what I suck at has nothing to do with raising children!

Plush..

I hear ya on the mother stuff. Thas just plain suxs and the fact that London has  a hisotry of leaving his meds out, and you have a 2 YO that is living the mission impossable life,

Heres what I would suggest.(even just to keep the peace)

yes the youngin keeps you up..and London gets up and does whatever.,..

get up when he gets up, watch him take the meds, feed and water the animial-

then crash on the sofa or back to bed. that way you KNOW that the meds are up, he was fed, and all is well in the house at for the moment. (notice I said for the MOMENT)

 

And what kind of medication was this?