Today I just really took a huge chance. I am at the point where I felt I needed to.
I am not as brave in real life in some areas as I am in others- specially on the web.
this guy that I ahve been off and on flirting with, well friday he walked out and just SMILED (a huge smile....) as I let my dog do her thing - at 5AM. Not really awake enough to say things to people. I was NOT ms. merica at the time ethier. I had a torn tee shirt on, a sports bra undernth (thank goodness) and some blown out sweats that I only sleep in.
well, this morning as I was preparing to cook my lunch I had an idea. leave some cocoa mix on his door. He has had my cocoa mix before (and didnt return the tupperware thing etheir) and we DO have a history-
I just left cocoa mix and some marshmellows on his door (and instructions written on the bag). He left so, He will know where it came from, but Im not going to hand him something right now. balls in his court....totally.
If he comes up - or stops by and says thanks- great. I did the right thingencourgement is what I going for at this point) if nothing else.....I did take a chance.
He may not be interested....dont let a guy play you like that. Move on......if he comes running when you already found someone, he had his chance. Please....
My husband was my neighbor......many moons ago. I invited him to an apartment warming party at my place ...a little note on his door......he was busy , but he let me know. I invited him out with some friends one night...couldnt do it. 3rd time a charm......football and pizza at my place....a smash. He called me the following week, Rockets game invite ......the rest is history.
Had he declined my invite for football and pizza at my place , I may not have kept trying and just took the hint....dont know.
__________________
"The life given us by nature is short; but the memory of a well-spent life is eternal." -Cicero
Bread Styx wrote: OK.....maybe he is just getting some courage or hiding the bodies he has in his closet before he invites you over for hot cocoa and muffins
yikes.....
__________________
"Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game"
Bread Styx wrote: OK.....maybe he is just getting some courage or hiding the bodies he has in his closet before he invites you over for hot cocoa and muffins
yikes.....
Well, she does live in Houston...
__________________
"The life given us by nature is short; but the memory of a well-spent life is eternal." -Cicero