foxfyre wrote: Um, daily, SU. Daily. A clean man is a sexy man. Well, sexier, anyway.
I suppose next you will want me to teach him to open doors for you and to send you flowers and stuff like that .....
You probably even want him to call the next day and tell you how wonderful the sex the night before was ..... Jeez FF give the guy a chance .... This stuff is perfectly fine before the marriage .... but must come to a complete stop no more then six months after it ....
Well, if we ever want to get tHRU the door, it might be best if he opens it. No, no flowers. And if he calls me the next damn day, bothering me at work, I'm going to be pissed.
JJ ... I hope your taken notes .... getting it all down ..... Just remember ..... If she says to do it .... you had better not ... and if she says not to do it ... it means you had better get it done .... quick ....
Also ..... When she's mad .... you had better know why ... cause she ain't gonna tell you
Straight Up wrote: JJ ... I hope your taken notes .... getting it all down ..... Just remember ..... If she says to do it .... you had better not ... and if she says not to do it ... it means you had better get it done .... quick ....
Also ..... When she's mad .... you had better know why ... cause she ain't gonna tell you
SU, you certainly are giving him interesting advice.
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Straight Up wrote: JJ ... I hope your taken notes .... getting it all down ..... Just remember ..... If she says to do it .... you had better not ... and if she says not to do it ... it means you had better get it done .... quick ....
Also ..... When she's mad .... you had better know why ... cause she ain't gonna tell you
SU, you certainly are giving him interesting advice.
Why thank you BC ..... It should keep him out of trouble for a little while ..... You see ... if he never gets another women ... then he never has to worry about bad things happening again .....
He just needs a sympathatic ear ... and some compassion maybe ... maybe his EX has left some deep wounds and he needs some time to heal ... it sure sounds like it to me ...
Instead of persecuting him ... and teasing him ... let him get it off his chest ...
But I do think he need to focus on something else for a while ... Those kids for instance ...
Just a thought ...
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I am not looking for sympathy, Bread...just some new friends.
No sympathy lays needed, thank you, very much. Honestly, finding someone to have sex with is not the problem, its forgetting the high standards I set for myself years ago and just doing it and leaving.
There is a single parent play-group some women told me about while I was shopping for diapers. I guess I could try that out; I am sure there will be plenty of single moms. But , that would be the last place they expect to find some lurking, lonely dad. Hmmm..it would be good for the kids to meet other kids, I guess.
Jersey Joe wrote: I am not looking for sympathy, Bread...just some new friends.
No sympathy lays needed, thank you, very much. Honestly, finding someone to have sex with is not the problem, its forgetting the high standards I set for myself years ago and just doing it and leaving.
There is a single parent play-group some women told me about while I was shopping for diapers. I guess I could try that out; I am sure there will be plenty of single moms. But , that would be the last place they expect to find some lurking, lonely dad. Hmmm..it would be good for the kids to meet other kids, I guess.
Sorry, I am not being very nice.
The play-group sounds good. You have something in common with the women and it will also give you a chance to get to know them well enough to earn some trust for babysitting. At this point in your life you probably want to meet a woman who understands the whole kid thing. Single women without kids may see your munchkins as baggage they dont want to handle. Whatever you do...dont go to one play -date, find a date, have sex with her, dont call her and expect to be treated kindly by any of the other moms. That may be dangerous, actually. Have your "on the side" affairs far away from your social activities. Maybe you can just make some new friends who have kids and maybe they know someone they can set you up with.
Just be careful......your kids need you ...dont go poking around in some nasty diseased woman or get some psycho to fall in love with you for your money again.
What do you look like anyway?
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Yah....what did you look like before the ex left you trampled, bruised, and desparate? Photo please.....(one without the foot prints where she wiped her feet on you as she trampled across your heart?)
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And your point is???? Don't have one? Well then shut up and I'll give you one!
Yah....what did you look like before the ex left you trampled, bruised, and desparate? Photo please.....(one without the foot prints where she wiped her feet on you as she trampled across your heart?)
I will see what I can find. My most recent pictures include her...I can take care of that , though.