OK, ok, ok.... you caught me... I am only picking on you. You are the most goodest parent in the State of Ohio.

Too bad the rest of the pussies around TOP don't have the balls to say it like it is!

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Well don't make me go find the part where you say that you let your kids play with her kids with the "strange" men around.   Did you ever consider spending less time on here and less time cheating on your husband, and then maybe you might have a little more energy to tend to your kids?

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I think you missed this question.

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USofAcop wrote:
Well don't make me go find the part where you say that you let your kids play with her kids with the "strange" men around.   Did you ever consider spending less time on here and less time cheating on your husband, and then maybe you might have a little more energy to tend to your kids?
I think you missed this question.

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OK, Dr. Phil. We all know you are a saint. Let me bathe in your brightness. I didn't miss it, just the ramblings of a mad man.

yeah, yeah.... thats it.

NOt sure how this stuff got out of order....

 

Because there are kids involved!

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This is kind of like Taxi Cab confessions. You come up in this taxi making your confessions, everyone listens, some of us are smart enough to hear what you say and put the pieces of the puzzle together. When we comment on it, we are the assholes, we are the ones that have it all wrong, we are the "mad man", we are the ones with the problem.

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You are basing everything on a message board. I am not a bad mom. I do the best I can. Show me a perfect parent and I w3ill kiss your ass.

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Never said that there was such a critter as a perfect parent. HOWEVER, you have clearly demonstrated by your posts, that you lack good judgement in many areas. You can say that I base my opinion off a msg board.... true, either you are a liar, and what you say is not true, or it is true and it doesn't look so good for you.  Which are you, the liar, or the person with bad judgement skills?

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I would be the second one. Life is trial and error. I haven't had a lot of guidance in my life. So as i said. I do the best I can. Get off your horse.

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Well, crap....cant yall just behave? I have control issues with my own child who is only going to be 4 in August, but thinks she is 16. My husband has only been gone a week and she is starting to ge the daddy blues and beginning to  panic on me. Thank God he is returning tomorrow .......with presents, I hope. When I had my child, I vowed to never judge another parents skills.That is pretty tough when I see  the future serial killers of the world at Gymboree or at the community play ground. I manage. Its tough doing what we do...even tougher when we do it alone. I have help from friends and family when my husband is away on business trips or if I am ill enough to warrant meds and lots of sleep. I am lucky. Do some networking, girl. Find some decent people who you can be friends with...who you can trust to help you. I am sorry your mother wont help you.....that just sucks. I cant even imagine how that feels.    A tip on the cereal mess...... even though I wake up with the chickens (so to speak)..my daughter many times insists on doing her own stuff, including getting juice and cereal. In the past, when i know I will have a busy morning, I have placed pre-measured bags of cereal in her fave bowls and have small containers with measured amounts milk and juice for her to pour without making a mess. When she is in her "I will do it myself mood"...she does it. There is no point in fighting with her when she is in that mood..That has got to be nature and nuture combined because my husband and I are both like that.   I just get this stuff ready the night before so I dont have to worry about it in the a.m. Its so nice...she even puts her little bowl and cup in the sink when she is down....trash thrown away...sometimes..not always.  Believe me, she made plenty of messes and I had my fits of rage because of her being a kid. I got over it. As far as London leaving his meds out....why not do the same thing with his meds......where he only has access to the amount he needs in the a.m. and then he wont be in the position to forget to close the bottle. Even though he is 10 and old enough to remember stuff like that, it is easy to get distracted and forget for a person of any age. You are under extreme pressure right now and I am sorry. From one mom to another...chill. Thats the only way you will survive..... We all now that if we post something in here.....we will get comments we like and those we dont. While I have mentioned some stuff in here; I am pretty hush hush about most of my life events.  I lead a pretty boring life, too. I am nowhere near perfect, but I try to present myself as such. Where else can I be almost perfect than in a forum with strangers? 

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Were you wanting me to start in on you?

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USofAcop wrote:

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Bread Styx wrote: Well, crap....cant yall just behave? I have control issues with my own child who is only going to be 4 in August, but thinks she is 16. My husband has only been gone a week and she is starting to ge the daddy blues and beginning to  panic on me. Thank God he is returning tomorrow .......with presents, I hope. When I had my child, I vowed to never judge another parents skills.That is pretty tough when I see  the future serial killers of the world at Gymboree or at the community play ground. I manage. Its tough doing what we do...even tougher when we do it alone. I have help from friends and family when my husband is away on business trips or if I am ill enough to warrant meds and lots of sleep. I am lucky. Do some networking, girl. Find some decent people who you can be friends with...who you can trust to help you. I am sorry your mother wont help you.....that just sucks. I cant even imagine how that feels.    A tip on the cereal mess...... even though I wake up with the chickens (so to speak)..my daughter many times insists on doing her own stuff, including getting juice and cereal. In the past, when i know I will have a busy morning, I have placed pre-measured bags of cereal in her fave bowls and have small containers with measured amounts milk and juice for her to pour without making a mess. When she is in her "I will do it myself mood"...she does it. There is no point in fighting with her when she is in that mood..That has got to be nature and nuture combined because my husband and I are both like that.   I just get this stuff ready the night before so I dont have to worry about it in the a.m. Its so nice...she even puts her little bowl and cup in the sink when she is down....trash thrown away...sometimes..not always.  Believe me, she made plenty of messes and I had my fits of rage because of her being a kid. I got over it. As far as London leaving his meds out....why not do the same thing with his meds......where he only has access to the amount he needs in the a.m. and then he wont be in the position to forget to close the bottle. Even though he is 10 and old enough to remember stuff like that, it is easy to get distracted and forget for a person of any age. You are under extreme pressure right now and I am sorry. From one mom to another...chill. Thats the only way you will survive..... We all now that if we post something in here.....we will get comments we like and those we dont. While I have mentioned some stuff in here; I am pretty hush hush about most of my life events.  I lead a pretty boring life, too. I am nowhere near perfect, but I try to present myself as such. Where else can I be almost perfect than in a forum with strangers?  Were you wanting me to start in on you? -- Edited by USofAcop at 11:51, 2006-06-17

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Dont even try..I will kick your nelly ass so far into the ground, rocks will be flying out  your ass crack.

I am not a perfect mom, but I try to be a damn good one. You insult me...you insult my mother....this chica doesnt like that! 

Step back, weinie boy!

You guys are all missing the whole point. My husband is not around at all. Gone. when I divorce I will have more assistance than I do now. And I quit smoking pot and i do not drink every night of the week. Never met a two year old that sleeps till 10? Ryan meet MP. And I sleep when he sleeps. Not that i need to explain, but i will since some people have the wrong idea. I have Aalready said that i notice my folly with the medication. Drop it. I made a mistake that will be corrected. The sleeping part? You8 guys can kiss my ass who think I am lazy. That is not it. I am physically exhausted. I went out for a night of "me" time last night. Too tired to have fun, and paying for it today. Can't be helped if Ryan sneaks out of the bed. Alarms do nothing but wake him up and go off for a while before I hear them. I childproof my home and make sure everything is up before I go to bed. That is all I can fucking do. Would love for some of you to come and walk in my shoes for a week and then post your opinions. And yes, a week. Not a day. It takes at least a week for it to set in. I have been doing it for almost a year. I am taking these comments with a grain of salt( BC? verdict? LMAO) because i live it. I know it. And I am more than happy to admit I made a mistake. But the escaping part? 2 different ways, 2 different times. These ways will never happen again. I learn from my mistakes. You would think I would learn about posting anything personal on this forum.

You know, I was going to stay out of this, but like others I am putting my .02 in...

To all of you who only babysit children and give them back to their parents, that doesn't give you qualifications to judge others on their parenting skills. as Bread said, she is raising her one daughter by herself for a week and is going crazy, try 2 kids for almost a year, I don't think you would be very happy and full of energy yourselves. Oh and add back surgery and complications of recovering and chasing kids with it

As for being 10 and getting his own ceral, big fucking deal people, when I was with my ex, her 9 year old always made his own breakfast everyday for school and on the weekends, he even helped with his lil sister giving her breakfast. Hell I helped raise the kids before we broke up and even after and it is not a easy task, that is done 24/7...Did I mentioned we lived together, I just didn't play babysitter like alot of you all.

Oh and you know sometimes when we werent home when he got home from school that he let himself in and held down the fort for a reasonable period of time because guidelines where established. Does that make me a bad caretaker or my ex a bad mother? No.... Children may not be adults, but guidelines can be set early and rules establish so as a child gets older they devolop more responibilty.

Also, I would like to point out, you guys don't know half the story like when we hear about other people share there lives, sometimes its hard to explain things over the internet and corners get cut to express thoughts and/or emotions....

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You know, I was going to stay out of this, but like others I am putting my .02 in... To all of you who only babysit children and give them back to their parents, that doesn't give you qualifications to judge others on their parenting skills.

I don't have to rob a bank to know it is wrong.

as Bread said, she is raising her one daughter by herself for a week and is going crazy, try 2 kids for almost a year, I don't think you would be very happy and full of energy yourselves. Oh and add back surgery and complications of recovering and chasing kids with it

Back surgery that never would have been needed if proper parenting were in place. But what about that fight that you stood by and watched?

As for being 10 and getting his own ceral, big fucking deal people, when I was with my ex, her 9 year old always made his own breakfast everyday for school and on the weekends, he even helped with his lil sister giving her breakfast. Hell I helped raise the kids before we broke up and even after and it is not a easy task, that is done 24/7...Did I mentioned we lived together, I just didn't play babysitter like alot of you all.

How admirable of you, fucking up some more kids lives.

Oh and you know sometimes when we werent home when he got home from school that he let himself in and held down the fort for a reasonable period of time because guidelines where established.

Key words!

Does that make me a bad caretaker or my ex a bad mother? No.... Children may not be adults, but guidelines can be set early and rules establish so as a child gets older they devolop more responibilty.

More key words!

Also, I would like to point out, you guys don't know half the story like when we hear about other people share there lives, sometimes its hard to explain things over the internet and corners get cut to express thoughts and/or emotions.

We hear enough bits an peices to put the puzzle together. Plush has tried many times to justify her position to make things look better after she has been called out on them.

SO, Photo, how many kids do you have?  Oh, and what has your experience and training taught you?  OH, I know what it has taught you.... It has taught you to seek out needy, victimized people, who are substance addicted and then move in to screw up the kids involved. That, Photo, is what I have gathered from your postings here and at O.com.

 

Good day!

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USofAcop wrote:

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Photogrrlz wrote:


You know, I was going to stay out of this, but like others I am putting my .02 in... To all of you who only babysit children and give them back to their parents, that doesn't give you qualifications to judge others on their parenting skills.
I don't have to rob a bank to know it is wrong.
as Bread said, she is raising her one daughter by herself for a week and is going crazy, try 2 kids for almost a year, I don't think you would be very happy and full of energy yourselves. Oh and add back surgery and complications of recovering and chasing kids with it
Back surgery that never would have been needed if proper parenting were in place. But what about that fight that you stood by and watched?
As for being 10 and getting his own ceral, big fucking deal people, when I was with my ex, her 9 year old always made his own breakfast everyday for school and on the weekends, he even helped with his lil sister giving her breakfast. Hell I helped raise the kids before we broke up and even after and it is not a easy task, that is done 24/7...Did I mentioned we lived together, I just didn't play babysitter like alot of you all.
How admirable of you, fucking up some more kids lives.
Oh and you know sometimes when we werent home when he got home from school that he let himself in and held down the fort for a reasonable period of time because guidelines where established.
Key words!
Does that make me a bad caretaker or my ex a bad mother? No.... Children may not be adults, but guidelines can be set early and rules establish so as a child gets older they devolop more responibilty.
More key words!
Also, I would like to point out, you guys don't know half the story like when we hear about other people share there lives, sometimes its hard to explain things over the internet and corners get cut to express thoughts and/or emotions.
We hear enough bits an peices to put the puzzle together. Plush has tried many times to justify her position to make things look better after she has been called out on them.
SO, Photo, how many kids do you have?  Oh, and what has your experience and training taught you?  OH, I know what it has taught you.... It has taught you to seek out needy, victimized people, who are substance addicted and then move in to screw up the kids involved. That, Photo, is what I have gathered from your postings here and at O.com.
 
Good day!

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Ooo hurt my feelers....NOT, you know I would comment, but you are not worth it.... Actually I am surprised I typed this much, you waste my forum space...

Photogrrlz wrote:

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USofAcop wrote: Photogrrlz wrote: You know, I was going to stay out of this, but like others I am putting my .02 in... To all of you who only babysit children and give them back to their parents, that doesn't give you qualifications to judge others on their parenting skills. I don't have to rob a bank to know it is wrong. as Bread said, she is raising her one daughter by herself for a week and is going crazy, try 2 kids for almost a year, I don't think you would be very happy and full of energy yourselves. Oh and add back surgery and complications of recovering and chasing kids with it Back surgery that never would have been needed if proper parenting were in place. But what about that fight that you stood by and watched? As for being 10 and getting his own ceral, big fucking deal people, when I was with my ex, her 9 year old always made his own breakfast everyday for school and on the weekends, he even helped with his lil sister giving her breakfast. Hell I helped raise the kids before we broke up and even after and it is not a easy task, that is done 24/7...Did I mentioned we lived together, I just didn't play babysitter like alot of you all. How admirable of you, fucking up some more kids lives. Oh and you know sometimes when we werent home when he got home from school that he let himself in and held down the fort for a reasonable period of time because guidelines where established. Key words! Does that make me a bad caretaker or my ex a bad mother? No.... Children may not be adults, but guidelines can be set early and rules establish so as a child gets older they devolop more responibilty. More key words! Also, I would like to point out, you guys don't know half the story like when we hear about other people share there lives, sometimes its hard to explain things over the internet and corners get cut to express thoughts and/or emotions. We hear enough bits an peices to put the puzzle together. Plush has tried many times to justify her position to make things look better after she has been called out on them. SO, Photo, how many kids do you have?  Oh, and what has your experience and training taught you?  OH, I know what it has taught you.... It has taught you to seek out needy, victimized people, who are substance addicted and then move in to screw up the kids involved. That, Photo, is what I have gathered from your postings here and at O.com.   Good day!

 

Ooo hurt my feelers....NOT, you know I would comment, but you are not worth it.... Actually I am surprised I typed this much, you waste my forum space...

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