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It's been said here before, but I thought I'd just give a little reminder. If you have a forum-related issue with another member, please try to resolve it among yourselves before asking for Mod intervention. I don't think that anyone here would refuse a reasonable request. If the member is uncooperative, then come to us. We're all adults, and while the Mods are here to maintain the site, we aren't forum police or babysitters and we shouldn't have to be. Thanks.

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Not to take this subject off its "very" interesting path, but I would just like to say I don't appreciate being called an adult!!!!! As a matter of fact, I have decided that I am now only 17!!!! And from what I can tell around here, things are however “they” want them to believe it to be soooooooo.....

eltsacon wrote:

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Buttercup wrote:

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It's been said here before, but I thought I'd just give a little reminder. If you have a forum-related issue with another member, please try to resolve it among yourselves before asking for Mod intervention. I don't think that anyone here would refuse a reasonable request. If the member is uncooperative, then come to us. We're all adults, and while the Mods are here to maintain the site, we aren't forum police or babysitters and we shouldn't have to be. Thanks.

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Not to take this subject off its "very" interesting path, but I would just like to say I don't appreciate being called an adult!!!!! As a matter of fact, I have decided that I am now only 17!!!! And from what I can tell around here, things are however “they” want them to believe it to be soooooooo.....

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eltsacon wrote:

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Buttercup wrote:

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It's been said here before, but I thought I'd just give a little reminder. If you have a forum-related issue with another member, please try to resolve it among yourselves before asking for Mod intervention. I don't think that anyone here would refuse a reasonable request. If the member is uncooperative, then come to us. We're all adults, and while the Mods are here to maintain the site, we aren't forum police or babysitters and we shouldn't have to be. Thanks.

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Not to take this subject off its "very" interesting path, but I would just like to say I don't appreciate being called an adult!!!!! As a matter of fact, I have decided that I am now only 17!!!! And from what I can tell around here, things are however “they” want them to believe it to be soooooooo.....

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eltsacon wrote:

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Damn! Boy I've been gone a while, I admin, but where did this backbone of yours come from texas??? You are on your way to an exoskeleton!!!!

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texaschickeee wrote:

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Buttercup wrote:

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Oh please, it was off its path moments after it was posted. I don't even care anymore.

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 and oh how it shows.

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As does this....

Buttercup wrote:

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texaschickeee wrote:

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 its called playing favorites,

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You know, TC, I have been very patient with you, excruciatingly so. As I have said to you once before, you have been a loyal supporter of TOP and that is appreciated. Lately, however, you have been overly sensitive about every little thing on the forum, except when sexual innuendoes are involved, of course.

You have suggested to me that YOU are the only one who gets certain treatment....the thread hijacking issue is a perfect example. Just because you don't know about something does not mean that it hasn't happened. Do you think that you are the only person who contacts me? Do you think that you are the only person who has issues with members and/or the forum? Has it even once occurred to you that I might have edited a post or requested "no hijacking" because a member requested it, not because I personally thought I should? Everyone else is able to have their issues resolved behind the scenes without all of the drama, why can't you?

Your issues last night were resolved. What more do you want? Do you want to me to reveal the content of private messages? I have told you before, I will not do that, not for you or anyone else.

You might be interested in knowing that there are some members who feel that you are treated with favoritism. Funny how perception works, isn't it?

So you go right ahead and tell everyone that you think US is my "boytoy," that I'm doing a crappy job here as mod, and that I play favorites. I'll keep doing what I'm doing, which seems to satisfy just about every member except you, and that is to treat everyone with respect and fairness whether I personally agree with them or not.

If you're that unhappy, then leave. I'm not going to ban you or delete you because you've done nothing to warrant that and I'm not going to ban someone just because I don't like some of the things they do.

I know you have better manners, so use them. Don't come into my house and disrespect me. If you feel it necessary to do that, then you need to go.

-- Edited by Buttercup at 14:43, 2006-10-24

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Buttercup wrote:

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texaschickeee wrote:

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 its called playing favorites,

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You know, TC, I have been very patient with you, excruciatingly so. As I have said to you once before, you have been a loyal supporter of TOP and that is appreciated. Lately, however, you have been overly sensitive about every little thing on the forum, except when sexual innuendoes are involved, of course.

You have suggested to me that YOU are the only one who gets certain treatment....the thread hijacking issue is a perfect example. Just because you don't know about something does not mean that it hasn't happened. Do you think that you are the only person who contacts me? Do you think that you are the only person who has issues with members and/or the forum? Has it even once occurred to you that I might have edited a post or requested "no hijacking" because a member requested it, not because I personally thought I should? Everyone else is able to have their issues resolved behind the scenes without all of the drama, why can't you?

Your issues last night were resolved. What more do you want? Do you want to me to reveal the content of private messages? I have told you before, I will not do that, not for you or anyone else.

You might be interested in knowing that there are some members who feel that you are treated with favoritism. Funny how perception works, isn't it?

So you go right ahead and tell everyone that you think US is my "boytoy," that I'm doing a crappy job here as mod, and that I play favorites. I'll keep doing what I'm doing, which seems to satisfy just about every member except you, and that is to treat everyone with respect and fairness whether I personally agree with them or not.

If you're that unhappy, then leave. I'm not going to ban you or delete you because you've done nothing to warrant that and I'm not going to ban someone just because I don't like some of the things they do.

I know you have better manners, so use them. Don't come into my house and disrespect me. If you feel it necessary to do that, then you need to go.

-- Edited by Buttercup at 14:43, 2006-10-24

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eltsacon wrote:

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I still want to piss on your leg!

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Someone say hijack?

Too many people take the internet too seriously. Why get bent over hurt feelings?  Many of us are busy dealing with other's problems all day and internet forums are nothing in the big picture of things.

Buttercup wrote:

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Thank you, ejay. Now can we please go back to having fun again?

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